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Those who can, do - #MFRWAuthor 52-week blog challenge

1/18/2019

 
PictureOn a trail ride in 2017 with the lovely Lady Anastasia.
There's an old saying that goes "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach." That ties into this week's blog prompt of "Reading, Writing, or Living?"

Unlike intrepid authors like Ernest Hemingway, I'm not much of an adventurer. Heck, taking a well-used bridle path when I'm not entirely sure where it goes screams "ADVENTURE!" to me. I'm not about to hie off on a wilderness safari and go big game hunting. I sure as hell won't run with the bulls in Pamplona.

Real adventure involves far too much physical risk and discomfort for my taste.

So, I read and write of daring people taking on grand adventure. I'm perfectly content to let them endure the injuries and inconvenience.

Another author with whom I'm acquainted, Mary McFarland, loves the adventure of her life which entails raising her own food. I admire her tireless effort, her garden, her flock of chickens. Then there's Teri Conroy, who's not an author, but a small farmer in New York raising a lovely herd of llamas and running a 4-H club she started. They both come across as happy, content in their endeavors even as they strive to improve on what they have. Perhaps "content" is the wrong word, as that implied complacency. Perhaps what they have that I lack is peace of mind.

Like many authors, I suspect, I live inside my head. But still, I must earn a living, so I write and edit for others. (Let's endure a moment of brutal honesty: my royalties don't come close to funding my modest lifestyle.) In editing, I tell my clients that I'm not their friend. If they want to pay someone to give them compliments and flatter them, then they ought to go elsewhere, because they won't get that from me. My candid editing and comments will sting like proverbial dope slaps to the back of the head: "Hey! Pay attention!"

You don't learn from flattery.

The goal of candid comments is always--always--to help the author improve the quality of the content. Several authors note that my guidance teaches them to become better writers.

However, being an editor who incidentally teaches doesn't mean I can't do. I do write. Some folks even think I'm pretty damned good at it, good enough to pay me money to do it for them.

Perhaps that means the old saying that came to mind initially doesn't really fit with the topic.

So, I spend a lot of time reading and a lot of time writing. But do I spend a lot of time living?

I think I live more than those folks with smartphones in their hands who record everything. When I do go somewhere, whether it's a restaurant or an adventure (tame as that might be), I experience it. So, yes, I live. It's a tame and often boring life, but I do live it. I don't look at it through a screen.

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Sadira Stone link
1/18/2019 09:44:07 am

"So, I read and write of daring people taking on grand adventure. I'm perfectly content to let them endure the injuries and inconvenience."
I love this line! And this one: "It's a tame and often boring life, but I do live it. I don't look at it through a screen."
Your skill as a writer is evident in this post. I share your distaste for risking life and limb in the name of adventure. Great post!

Holly Bargo
1/18/2019 09:49:13 am

Thank you! I get funny looks when I tell people that I seldom carry a cell phone.

Mary J McCoy-Dressel link
1/18/2019 10:34:51 am

I live with a phone, but I'm not one to record...anything. I have a low real-life adventure quota, but, like you, I enjoy what I do when I get a chance. Lady Anastasia is beautiful!

Holly Bargo
1/18/2019 10:49:27 am

I have a camera. An actual camera. I use that to take pictures, on those occasions when I remember to bring it. Stasia, by the way, was 32 years old in that photo. I hoped to ride her last year, but age finally caught up with the old mare. She's enjoying a leisurely retirement now.

Molly Daniels link
1/19/2019 11:43:19 am

I had to laugh; I also use a camera when I know I'm going to be taking a lot of pictures, and it's always funny to hear people say, 'Look...an ACTUAL camera! I've not seen one of these in a while!'

I hate deleting a lot of photos on my phone; it's easier on the camera.

Kate Hill link
1/18/2019 11:03:01 pm

I like to live, write, and spend some time on my phone. I agree that you don't have to do the extreme to still enjoy life. Whatever makes you happy is the way to go.


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